It really hurts you know…

When you know their behavior in and out like literally into the depth.

The way they respond to our messages
The way they text messages to us
The way they behave according to their mood
Hurts us

"When I say knowing them inside and out, I mean really understanding them deeply. It's about getting to know all the little things that make them who they are – their habits, their fears, what makes them happy. It's like being able to read their mind sometimes, knowing how they feel even without them saying a word. It's about having a special connection where you can just feel what they need or how they're doing. Knowing someone inside and out means loving them for who they are, with all their imperfections, and being there for them no matter what."

It hurts when we can subconsciously feel the change in the small detailings in the messages like their daily shortcuts.. it might be the good morning text like the change of their Good Morning Miss ♥️ to Good Morning ♥️ or Good Morning 🌄 or Good Morning or GM.

It hurts when we can feel the difference between their care and concern in the messages of daily texts being changed. If not drastically then gradually.

It hurts when you ask for their daily routine from Had your breakfast, had your lunch or had your dinner and they don't even ask you or might never ask you in return.

It hurts when you ask them how's your day. Don't be stressed. Everything will be fine. Do you want me to do anything that might be helpful for you and in return they don't even ask what about you.

It hurts When you care about them so much and in concern you say please text me when you reach. Drive safe. Go safe. Are you going alone? Share with me the number of your friend who was traveling with you. Are the tickets booked? If you're bored or feel alone, call me. And in return they don't even ask or wish you to be safe.

It hurts when you have a very bad day all day long and you text them for some diversion or stress relief they don't even sense the difference between our texts and in return they behave according to their mood and says are you mad why are you texting like a sick person.

It hurts when you support them for all the bad things that have happened. It might be bullying or quarreling with someone or whatever and in return you don't even try to understand what has happened and questions their mistakes. 

It hurts when they are putting in a lot of effort and making you feel special in whatever they can show to you and I'm return you don't even recognise them and in return when you say what efforts you have put for me.

It hurts when they are trying to console you so much when you're crying for whatever loss that you had or trying to be supportive at your situation and in return you don't even sense their sadness over their situation. 

It hurts when they put all of their efforts to the maximum they can to make you feel happy and to stabilize and to maintain and keep your bond long lasting and in return when you say what have you done for us of for the bond. Without even trying to put some effort from your side.

Efforts are a must in any relationship.Put some efforts... Efforts are needed from both sides if you want a happy, healthy and long lasting relationship.

Don't be an idiot. Nobody asks for caring, concern, love and affection. If you get them from persons around you then feel blessed you're getting them without even asking. be kind enough with them to those who are with you showing any of those priceless things. In this materialistic world will ever give to you without expect something and also be smart enough to differentiate amongst them.
 
Everyone deserves some caring, some love and some concern and some affection. Luck if you got them. But do put some effort in the people who love you and make them feel special by asking about them and showing some concern in return. Because at the end of the day everyone wants some caring if you don't show whatever you can to them.

It really hurts.